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hahhaz.... toDay wEnt out wIf mi Fren instead of going to visit mi mum's friend who juz came back from America..... wEnt to ceNtrEpoint to bUY clothes for i dun noe who from Domanchi ( i thk tats the shop name, correct mi if i'm wrong....) well was actually quite shocked that she even asked mi to go out wif her.... and to go shopping some more... den at the end of the day den i realised that she had a motive.... hahhz make her sound so bad... but she realli nice lar juz that her method was wrong lor... i was actually quite stupid to haf not realised her motive until she said it lar.... cuz like i kept wondering y i haf to come out and buy clothes wif her for someone else who i dun noe.... so i speculated but i didn't confirm wif her cuz if she wanted to say she would and i dun like to force ppl to say things which they dun wan mi to noe... so i juz kept quiet and juz walked along making small talk every now and den and juz took glances at the shops to see wat they were selling.... dEn it was onli at the shop when she was choosing the shirt that i realised her motive for asking mi to come out to buy clothes wif her.... wEll was acutally quite sad that she didn't wanna tell mi the reason cuz i mean i like blur sotong lydat lor juz walk ard thiking she was juz buying a present bUt this wa not jUZ any present.... den after tat think think also maybe she had her reasons for not telling mi and den i didn't blame her liao.... sO she bought the shirt she wanted and i accomplished mi mission for tat day le so we were both happy....
aFtEr tat went to mi auntie house to haf dinner and gamble..... hahahz... haf been gambling for the past few days le.... didn't win any money vut i am not complaining cuz it jus fir the fun of it.... gambled till abt 1 plus before we stopped and den went back and after tat i gambled some more wif mi neghbour cuz they wanted to play mahjong so i juz played lor... was like playing wof eyes half-closed lar... so tired den in the end after one round i couldn't take it liao and told them we had to stop.... or i would fall asleep on the mahjong table.... LOLz....
lEarnt a new leSson today..... it is not easy to stay wif ur mother-in-law and to please her at the same time.... well i guess many family actually haf this prob... but i guess for mi auntie it's juz realli bad cuz everything juz hit her at one go..... all the while, mi auntie and her Mother-In-Law (MIL) had not been getting along well cUZ mi unCle is reAllY a 24 hour fillial son..... which i noe is good to be fillial but being over fillial is definitely not a good thing.... whenever mi auntie nad her MIL get into a quarrel, mi uncle would always side his mother no matter who is in the right or wrong.... and as a husband, i guess tat is not rite... of course who am i to comment buT i juz feel bAd for mi auntie cuZ she like had no one to back her up.... and she is like fighting a lone battle..... and worst thing is her MIL is a very unreasonable woman.... who likes to stir up trouble at the slightest thing and create more problems for everyone.... and whenever the MIL get angry wif the son, the son would juz take in everything quietly and den in the end vent it our on mi auntie and her kids which i realli feel is not fair lor.... cua i mean y should onli one person shoulder all the responsibility of maintaining the family.... it should be everyone's effort.....
Another case study is mi neighbour MIL who is still living wif them... mi auntie is lucky in the sense that the MIL does not live wif them and onli comes abt two times a week to her house and maybe stay overnight for one night before going back to her home..... buT mi neighbour is not so lucky liao... cuz her MIL is staying wif her.... and nobody likes her.... aNd i mean NOBODY.... ok lar... not realli nobody lar its juz tat everyone tries to give into her cuz she is old liao and also becuz she has a real bad temper and u wouldn't wanna be in her line of fire.... hEr two grandchildren who are staying wif her dun like her at all and would avoid her like the plague while everyone would try not to step on her toe..... so the grandmother would always go down to the guard house here and sit at the entrance of the guard room to talk to the guards who would be the onli wans who actually listen to her.... so she spent most of her evenings not at home but at the guard house where all the passing cars entering thee condo would see her and she would juz sit there.... there was even one time when mi neighbour bought back dinner for her and she owuldn't wanna wat it at home, instead she bought it downstairs and ate at the guard house which doesn't realli reflect well rite?? cuz i mean who wouldn't wanna eat at home if they had a choice, so it realli doesn't reflect well on the family and mi neighbour was furious.... there was even this one time when Mil actually threw a tantrum in front of all of us and juz stormed off the bbq pit and went home leaving the rest of us stumped and shocked cuz this was the first time we seen her lydat.... den mi neighbour couldn't take it liao and juz broke down and cried in front of us and she started saying her side of the story which is real sad cuz she like has many grand children but the kids mi neighbour had were the one she didn't like de.... so she would like throw tantrum at her kids and shout at them or call them stupid..... and i was shocked when i first heard it but den when i went to their house the next few times i actually heard it wif mi own ears how their grandmother called them and den i was convinced tat mi neighbour was speaking the truth.... and the grand children didn't realli like her too.... they would like try to ignore her if she went into one of her raging tantrum.... but i realli think tat this is realli not a good way for a family to live... its so complicated and trying juz to past one day.... everyday u are trying to get it over and done wif and nobody realli enjoys staying at such a home....
wEll typed alot liao.... so tired... muz go slp le.... so niTex everyone.... till i bloG again....
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